This blog was inspired by yet another rewarding conversation with a fellow soldier who bravely conquered their own fear!
Authored: October 13, 2024
Updated: October 14, 2024
We’ve all been there—standing at the edge of something new, something unknown, with a pit in our stomachs and a hundred reasons why it could go wrong flashing through our minds. Maybe it’s starting a new job, pursuing a passion, or stepping into a different role in life. The fear of failure can feel paralyzing. Sometimes, that fear is rooted in past experiences—someone told us we weren’t good enough, or we internalized the belief that the unknown is full of danger.
But here’s the truth: That fear? It’s more about the stories we tell ourselves than the reality we’re stepping into. Studies reveal that about 80% of the things we fear never actually happen. That means the vast majority of the “what ifs” keeping us up at night are just shadows—illusions created by our minds. Hmmm.
But if we don’t shift—if we let those fears sit in the driver’s seat—we’ll never face them, and they’ll keep us trapped. Fear isn’t just the enemy of action; it’s the enemy of growth. And ironically, the more we avoid it, the more it grows, taking over our confidence and peace.
So, what happens when you decide, “Nope! I’m not letting this fear define me”? The answer is powerful. You step into a space where the unknown becomes a field ripe for harvest. Yes, the journey may have bumps and bruises, but it also holds the promise of joy, serenity, and the quiet thrill of overcoming.
Conquering fear doesn’t just offer relief from anxiety—it brings a deep sense of peace. You begin to feel a tranquility that comes from knowing you’ve stared down your doubts and stepped forward anyway. There’s a pure joy in that—an unshakable belief in your own resilience. It’s like harvesting a field you didn’t even know could yield fruit, and suddenly, you’re reaping benefits you only dreamed of.
So, when fear comes knocking again, remember—80% of what we fear never happens. And the other 20%? You’re more than equipped to handle it. Let fear shrink in the light of your action and watch the harvest come in abundance. Go for it—your peace and success are waiting.
Just want to keep this thing called #life - SIMPLE! Remember to stay #Positive, #Plugged and #Present. #Learnedman
Updated - 10/14/24: Study actually revealed 85%. Study can be found here: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/85-of-what-we-worry-about_b_8028368/amp
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