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Do Not Force It - Reevaluate

Updated: Aug 25

A few days ago, during a conversation, I found myself advising the other person to pause and seriously consider reevaluating. That simple exchange sparked the inspiration for this short blog.


In a world that constantly urges us to act, respond, and react, the simple act of pausing can seem counterintuitive. Yet, there is profound wisdom in taking a step back, in choosing not to force things when they don't align with our inner peace or understanding. I big on peace. This idea is beautifully encapsulated in the famous words of Edgar Allan Poe: “Believe none of what you hear and believe half of what you see.” Though often taken figuratively, this expression invites us to do something we rarely consider—reevaluate.


Reevaluation isn't about doubt; it's about clarity. It’s the deliberate act of pausing, reflecting, and reassessing our perceptions before we proceed. When we encounter information, whether through conversations, social media, or our observations, our natural inclination is to form opinions quickly. However, Poe's advice encourages us to slow down and scrutinize the truth of what we perceive. What we hear can be influenced by bias, emotion, or misinterpretation. What we see can be just as deceptive, shaped by context, angles, or incomplete narratives.


Writing this blog re-emphasizes the value of truth: sometimes, the most powerful response is no response at all. Silence, in this context, isn't passivity; it's a choice to not rush into judgment or action until we have a fuller understanding. This restraint is not only wise but also kind. It allows us to maintain our peace, and it gives others the space to clarify, correct, or reveal more.


When you know what’s true—when your knowledge is grounded in experience, belief, and proven facts—you are in a powerful position. This truth is not shaken by every new piece of information or by the opinions of others. Instead, it becomes a steady foundation that allows you to navigate through noise and uncertainty with confidence and calm.


So the next time you find yourself in a situation where things don’t quite make sense, or where you're tempted to force a resolution, pause. Take a breath, and reevaluate. Remember that clarity often comes in the quiet moments of reflection. By choosing not to force it, you open yourself to deeper understanding, greater peace, and the wisdom to act—or not act—when the time is truly right.


Trust the process—it's been tested and proven. #StayFocused


So, as we navigate this journey called life, let’s strive to keep things simple. Let’s stay focused on what truly matters—remaining #Positive, #Plugged, and #Present. After all, wealth is not just about having more; it’s about being more.


Photo by #Learnedman Fort Lauderdale, Florida #Sunrise


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